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Best cocktail bars for a date in New York

A proper drink between dinner and dessert.

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These are bars you go to for the drinks themselves — a considered menu, careful technique, a bartender who can make you something that isn't on it. They sit best in the middle of a night: after dinner, before dessert, or as the nightcap. Restaurants with a strong bar are on the restaurant lists instead.

This guide ranks 224 cocktail bars in New York, from Midtown Manhattan to Flatiron / Gramercy and Chelsea / Hell's Kitchen. Editors' picks come first, then the rest by rating, and the plans below build a whole evening around the best of them.

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Editors' picks first, then by rating.

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Good to know

What's the best cocktail bar in New York for a date?
Our top pick is bar/code NYC in Midtown Manhattan, rated 4.4 out of 5. All Blues and Mother’s Ruin round out the top 3.
Which New York neighborhoods have the best cocktail bars?
Midtown Manhattan (6), Flatiron / Gramercy (4) and Chelsea / Hell's Kitchen (2) have the most spots in the top 24.
Are there affordable cocktail bars in New York?
Yes — Mother’s Ruin, The Penrose Bar and Art Bar are all $$ or under.
Do I need a reservation?
It depends on the spot. Book ahead for Tigre, while Mother’s Ruin takes walk-ins.
What should we do before or after?
Make it a cocktail night: dinner, then cocktails, then something sweet. The plans on this page pair each top spot with the best-rated places within about a 20-minute walk.

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