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Best cocktail bars for a date in San Diego

A proper drink between dinner and dessert.

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These are bars you go to for the drinks themselves — a considered menu, careful technique, a bartender who can make you something that isn't on it. They sit best in the middle of a night: after dinner, before dessert, or as the nightcap. Restaurants with a strong bar are on the restaurant lists instead.

This guide ranks 55 cocktail bars in San Diego, from Gaslamp Quarter / Downtown to Hillcrest / Bankers Hill and North Park. Editors' picks come first, then the rest by rating, and the plans below build a whole evening around the best of them.

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Editors' picks first, then by rating.

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Good to know

What's the best cocktail bar in San Diego for a date?
Our top pick is 619 Spirits North Park in North Park, rated 4.4 out of 5. Gilly’s House of Cocktails and Neighborhood round out the top 3.
Which San Diego neighborhoods have the best cocktail bars?
Gaslamp Quarter / Downtown (8), Hillcrest / Bankers Hill (3) and North Park (3) have the most spots in the top 24.
Are there affordable cocktail bars in San Diego?
Yes — 619 Spirits North Park, Gilly’s House of Cocktails and Captain's Quarters are all $$ or under.
Do I need a reservation?
It depends on the spot. Book ahead for Carlo, Room 56 and Fallen Empire.
What should we do before or after?
Make it a cocktail night: dinner, then cocktails, then something sweet. The plans on this page pair each top spot with the best-rated places within about a 20-minute walk.

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