Best cocktail bars for a date in San Diego
A proper drink between dinner and dessert.
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These are bars you go to for the drinks themselves — a considered menu, careful technique, a bartender who can make you something that isn't on it. They sit best in the middle of a night: after dinner, before dessert, or as the nightcap. Restaurants with a strong bar are on the restaurant lists instead.
This guide ranks 55 cocktail bars in San Diego, from Little Italy / Middletown to Oceanside / Carlsbad and Pacific Beach / Mission Beach. Editors' picks come first, then the rest by rating, and the plans below build a whole evening around the best of them.
The list
Editors' picks first, then by rating.
THRONE ROOM
5.0(1)South Park / Golden Hill · $$
Kiku Room
4.5(18)Little Italy / Middletown
Sunbird
4.0(1)Little Italy / Middletown
The Pool House
Little Italy / Middletown · $$
The Meantime
Oceanside / Carlsbad · $
Misadventure & Co
Oceanside / Carlsbad · $$
Candy's Boom Boom Room
Pacific Beach / Mission Beach · $$
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Good to know
- What's the best cocktail bar in San Diego for a date?
- Our top pick is THRONE ROOM in South Park / Golden Hill, rated 5.0 out of 5. Kiku Room and Sunbird round out the top 3.
- Which San Diego neighborhoods have the best cocktail bars?
- Little Italy / Middletown (3), Oceanside / Carlsbad (2) and Pacific Beach / Mission Beach (1) have the most spots in the top 7.
- Are there affordable cocktail bars in San Diego?
- Yes — THRONE ROOM, The Pool House and The Meantime are all $$ or under.
- What should we do before or after?
- Make it a cocktail night: dinner, then cocktails, then something sweet. The plans on this page pair each top spot with the best-rated places within about a 20-minute walk.