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Date night in Harlem

Where to eat, drink and end the night in Harlem.

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Planning a date night in Harlem? We track 44 spots here — places for dinner and bars — and the best-rated of them are below, editors' picks first.

For one kind of night, the Harlem guides plan the whole evening: romantic restaurants, wine bars, cocktail bars, live music venues, cozy restaurants, special-occasion restaurants and activities, each with dinner and a last stop within walking distance.

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The best date spots in Harlem

Editors' picks first, then by rating.

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What are the best date spots in Harlem?
Our top pick is Harlem Hops, rated 5.0 out of 5. Cocteleria Perla Negra and Lucille's Coffee and Cocktails are close behind.
Where should we eat in Harlem?
Try Lucille's Coffee and Cocktails, Archer & Goat and BIXI for dinner.
Where can we get a drink in Harlem?
Try Cocteleria Perla Negra, Lucille's Coffee and Cocktails and BIXI for cocktails.
What's the most romantic spot in Harlem?
BIXI, Lido Harlem Restaurant and The Honeywell are the most romantic on this list.

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