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A romantic night in Harlem

Low light, a good table, and nowhere to be afterwards.

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The restaurant is still the date most people start with, and the right one does most of the work: a room that's quiet enough to talk, light low enough to relax, a table you're not hurried off. Every restaurant here was chosen for that feeling rather than for the food alone — though the food is good. Book ahead for a weekend, ask for a corner or window table when you do, and leave the rest of the evening open.

This guide ranks 6 romantic restaurants in Harlem. Editors' picks come first, then the rest by rating, and the plans below build a whole evening around the best of them.

Nights people planned here

Published date nights with a stop on this list.

Make a night of it

Routes around the top spots on the list, with the best-rated places nearby for the rest of the evening.

Around BIXI

2 stops, all within a short walk

1
0.5 mi
5:30 PMDrinks first
Eli's Wine Bar
Eli's Wine Bar

Bar

1012 Amsterdam Ave, New York, NY 10025

Morningside Heights

4.9

2
7:00 PMDinner
BIXI
BIXI

Cocktail Bar

2164 Frederick Douglass Boulevard, New York City, NY 10026

Harlem

4.9

Around Lido Harlem Restaurant

2 stops, all within a short walk

1
0.8 mi
5:30 PMDrinks first
Musette Wine Bar
Musette Wine Bar

Wine Bar

420 Malcolm X Blvd, New York, NY 10037

Harlem

4.4

2
7:00 PMDinner
Lido Harlem Restaurant
Lido Harlem Restaurant

Restaurant

2168 Frederick Douglass Blvd, New York, NY 10026

Harlem

4.8

Around The Nephew Supper Club

2 stops, all within a short walk

1
0.6 mi
5:30 PMDrinks first
CLAIRE'S WINE BAR
CLAIRE'S WINE BAR

Wine Bar

150 Manhattan Ave, New York, NY 10025, USA

Morningside Heights

2
7:00 PMDinner
The Nephew Supper Club
The Nephew Supper Club

Restaurant

271 W 119th St, New York, NY 10026

Harlem

4.3

Romantic restaurants in Harlem

Editors' picks first, then by rating.

Good to know

What's the best romantic restaurant in Harlem for a date?
Our top pick is BIXI, rated 4.9 out of 5. Lido Harlem Restaurant and The Nephew Supper Club round out the top 3.
Are there affordable romantic restaurants in Harlem?
Yes — BIXI, Lido Harlem Restaurant and The Nephew Supper Club are all $$ or under.
What should we do before or after?
Make it a romantic night: drinks first, then dinner, then something sweet. The plans on this page pair each top spot with the best-rated places within about a 20-minute walk.

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